Recalling the Hippie-rebellion era at Lakeside School

A letter from Lakeside's lawyers, revealing an old sex scandal, stirs memories of the '70s, when old-school traditions briefly vanished.

Crosscut's Knute Berger at his 1972 Lakeside graduation.

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Crosscut's Knute Berger at his 1972 Lakeside graduation.

Seattle's Lakeside School

Lakeside School

Seattle's Lakeside School

Two days before my 40th high school reunion this summer, I received a letter in the mail. It was from the Seattle law firm, Floyd, Pflueger & Ringer. I had never heard of them, but the neat buff-colored envelope made me nervous. Had I libeled someone? Was it family troubles? In my experience, good news rarely arrives from attorneys.

The letter was addressed to the Lakeside classes of 1971-75. "With regret, we inform you that Lakeside School was recently notified in December 2011 that a former faculty member...had an inappropriate relationship with a then 17 year-old male student in the 1970s." The letter went on to say that law enforcement had been notified, but no criminal action would be taken due to the statute of limitations. The school "nonetheless felt it prudent" to let former students and subsequent employers of the teacher know what happened and the teacher's "admitted behavior." The female teacher was named, the victim was not.

That certainly gave us something to talk about at the reunion. But it was not really that much of surprise. It seemed fitting that the scandal occurred in our era. Ours was a class that had been in the middle of another major sex scandal when a part-time Lakeside instructor and judge, Gary Little, was found to have preyed on some students and other juvenile males, including some who had been before him in court. On the eve of Little's exposure by the Seattle Post-Intelligencer in August of 1988, he committed suicide at the courthouse. Some of his victims were in my class.

In the newly revealed incident, the school is aggressively dispelling any idea that such behavior would be shushed, ignored, or tolerated. Such was not the case with Little, whose serial predation was the stuff of gossip for years before the P-I developed its story. Sources included Lakeside teachers who wanted the well-connected Little investigated, but the story seemed too hot, or too hard to nail down. When it broke, the school distanced itself from the scandal.

Now we're in the post-Jerry Sandusky/Penn State era, when educational institutions are being scrutinized for how they've handled sex scandals. A recent example is the New York Times Magazine's story on New York's private Horace Mann School's "secret history of abuse" that took place back in the '70s and '80s. "Prep-school Predators," was the headline on a story that vigorously washed the dirty laundry.

One has to assume that there was damage done in the Lakeside case outlined in the recent letter, if for no other reason than the student came forward nearly 40 years after the fact. Victims of abuse have different experiences and timetables. Such delayed reporting is not unusual. The letter stated that the teacher involved had admitted the "behavior." The letter affirmed that the school has "zero tolerance" for past or present sexual misconduct. The mere existence of the letter suggests that pretty emphatically.

Still, as a bystander, one is left with the feeling of being given a glimpse of an incomplete picture. Were there more victims? More perpetrators? Was there a loss of institutional control, or is it explained by simply saying it was "the '70s?"

That period in Lakeside's history was a time of huge change within the institution. In the fall of 1971, the school had merged with St. Nicholas, an all-girls girl's school on Capitol Hill, and thus went co-ed. The last all-male senior class erected a gravestone to commemorate the event. In the '70s, the coat-and-tie dress code was abandoned, student government was abolished, and many senior privileges given up. The front door of Bliss Hall had been an entrance reserved exclusively for upperclassmen and faculty, but it became a democratic doorway to all classes. Even younger students took to smoking cigarettes in the "Senior Circle" with impunity.

The old-school traditions didn't simply drop away; they were mowed down. Students in Robert Fulghum's art class were allowed to splash paint on the walls, a kind of psychedelic graffiti; classes were taught in Guerilla Warfare and batik. Students and teachers had hair and lots of it. Drugs were common; affluent kids could afford the best stuff. Even the nerds were hippies: Have you seen the old photos of the long-haired Paul Allen (class of '71) with sideburns and a Fu Manchu mustache? In 1972, a record (to that time) number of Lakeside grads did not immediately go on to college, a challenge to the whole notion of "prep" in prep school.

The school newspaper, The Tatler, was also in full rebellion. It was as if a student paper had mated with the National Lampoon and foreshadowed The Onion. There was satire, chaos, hoax stories, creative writing, occasionally a tidbit of news. I knew I had to work there when I saw a sports story headlined "Itchy Track Nuts." Clearly, adult supervision was lax, which was how we liked it. In 1972, even the freewheeling Tatler was a target of rebellion: The school also featured two "underground" student newspapers.

The Lakeside I attended was a '70s furry freak, not the school it was before — or after. When the Gary Little scandal broke in 1988, I returned to the school to do some reporting and quickly realized that there had been a return to basics: academics, tighter control, order. The faculty was on a tighter leash, former teachers told me. Less student-teacher fraternizing, no touching allowed. Some old-time teachers blamed the new uptightness on the school's being co-ed, or the Little legacy, or the Reagan era. The pre-60's and '70s rebellion school, while smaller and more intimate, had been very old school too. Hippie Lakeside wasn't the school of the future or the past, but an adolescent phase.

I have heard it said that my Lakeside class was a victim of the cultural collisions of the time. Authority was questioned, odd for a school that used to quietly boast in (to use Mitt Romney's phrase) "quiet rooms," of preparing Seattle's future leaders. It was an elite institution in a time when people were questioning the very notion of elitism. All the old ways were ripe for questioning and reinvention. We read Vonnegut and Brautigan along with Dostoyevsky and Hemingway. The teachers wanted to be cool too. Some Lakesiders I've talked with said they are not surprised by the contents of the lawyer letter, citing a looser, more sexualized atmosphere in the '70s. One thing didn't change: high academic standards. Even in batik.

It was also an era that many people quickly forgot, or wanted to. The school has evolved. It is more global, more serious, more diverse, and more famous due to alums like Allen and Bill Gates. The campus is now like that of a small university. Lakeside is a leader among prep schools nationally, no longer simply the place where a provincial city sent its sons. Students seem very, very directed. I wouldn't trade my time there for another, though I sometimes look at the current school with envy. The students and faculty seem to have such...clarity.

The lawyer's letter seemed a strong reminder to us students of another era. All should not be forgotten. Abuse of students by teachers is not unique to that time, nor has it been the norm in any era. But there are things, hard things, that need to be remembered and talked about sometimes — even 40 years after the fact.


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Comments:

Posted Mon, Aug 20, 8:04 a.m. Inappropriate

So what's the lesson here? Get "hippie" and you can screw a teacher? Who of us really cares about that event at Lakeside 40 years later except an uptight school desperate to protect its reputation and the alumni wallowing in the past? The real story was the sexual predator who killed himself after preying on Lakeside students, and that's old and still deplorable news. Equally deplorable was, as you describe, Lakeside's ass-covering. That they would send you the current letter is laughable -- and sad.

By the way, from many historical perspectives, the "hippie" era ended with the 60s. The 70s were the still rippling social reactions to what had been set in place the preceding decade.

Posted Mon, Aug 20, 9:44 a.m. Inappropriate

Two hippie, or rather Neo-Hippie chicks were camped out outside Tullies over the weekend. Both with huge back packs, both with ill-trained six month old German Shorthair Pointers, pricey dogs, both on their cellphones, both extremely self-conscious it strikes me. One is big and wears layers of flayed flouncy skirts, and has dyed green hair; the other is slight and not as exorbitantly attired. Her silly dog makes a lunge at me as I pass by but instantly cowers and its owner reproves it. x

mikerol

Posted Mon, Aug 20, 10:09 a.m. Inappropriate

The full content of the Seattle law firm letter as a link would greatly add to this story.

animalal

Posted Mon, Aug 20, 11:12 a.m. Inappropriate

This is a puzzling story. Were I Mr. Berger's editor, I'd have spiked it.

Its only significant fact is the revelation Bill Gates and Paul Allen are to the manor born -- which exposes their self-made-man images as examples of the propaganda by which the capitalist aristocrats typically disguise themselves as of men the people, thus to promote the biggest of the American Big Lies: that anybody can become a billionaire baron, that you too can Strike It Rich.

But if this were Mr. Berger's point, he surely buried his lead – a surprise, since I know him to be an exceptionally competent writer and reporter.

Meanwhile he is telling us he too is a member of the One Percent, else he'd not be a Lakeside alumnus.

But we already know that. Were Mr. Berger not part of the aristocracy – were he not at least considered politically trustworthy by the aristocrats – he would not have a paying job in Ruling Class Media.

Meanwhile his disclosure of teacher-student sex at Lakeside remains perplexing.

Perhaps what he is telling us is Ruling Class kids don't have it as easy as we imagine, that in fact they too have burdens, that we should pity them at least as much as we pity the legions of children who are now homeless due to the foreclosure and eviction that resulted from the permanent joblessness inflicted on their parents by predatory capitalists.

Or maybe Mr. Berger's point is that even the aristocracy is afflicted by the definitively USian terror of human sex and sexuality, an expression of self-hatred that is among the topmost impulses in this wretchedly oppressed nation's compensatory drive toward zero-tolerance Christian theocracy.

Posted Mon, Aug 20, 11:40 a.m. Inappropriate

I have no affiliation with Lakeside. I did know some people who went there in the 1980s, and certainly there were not stereotypical one percenters. My understanding is that Lakeside now offers a lot of financial aid. I don't know the specifics of Mr Allen's family's finances, but his dad was a librarian at the UW, which is hardly "manor born". The attempts to summarize the points of the article seem to be quite a stretch.

sjenner

Posted Mon, Aug 20, 9:29 p.m. Inappropriate

To say the least this is not one of Mr. Berger's better articles. Does Crosscut have any editorial standards for regular contributors or will they publish anything they write?

Posted Tue, Aug 21, 2:13 a.m. Inappropriate

Re your photo... you look like a character on "Welcome Back Kotter" :-)

s_calvert

Posted Tue, Aug 21, 6:57 p.m. Inappropriate

Actually he looks exactly like my downstairs neighbor!

The more things change...

jabailo

Posted Thu, Aug 23, 9:47 a.m. Inappropriate

Currently, to be a member of the one percent, you need an annual income of $516,633. Not assets- but yearly income.
I have known Knute since 10th grade or so, and I can assure you he is not now, nor has he ever been, in that category.

Ries

Posted Sun, Aug 26, 3:05 p.m. Inappropriate

I also received the letter from Lakeside, and I'd like to point out a factual error in Mr. Berger's piece. He writes, "One has to assume that there was damage done in the Lakeside case outlined in the recent letter, if for no other reason than the student came forward nearly 40 years after the fact." Actually, the letter did not indicate in any way that the student himself was the one who notified the school about his sexual relationship with the teacher four decades earlier.

Here is the pertinent sentence in the letter -- I've omitted the teacher's name: "With regret, we inform you that Lakeside School was recently notified in December 2011 that former faculty member, [teacher's name], had an inappropriate sexual relationship with a then 17 year-old male student in the 1970's."

That sentence certainly leaves open the possibility that it was the former student who notified the school, but it's also possible that it was someone else -- perhaps another former student who knew about the relationship at the time or learned about it later, and who now feels very strongly about the issue of sexual abuse. If that happens to be the case, the former student who had the relationship with the teacher so long ago might not feel that it was damaging or regret it at all.

I don't mean to condone what the teacher did, and I understand why our society now considers a zero tolerance policy necessary to prevent the sexual abuse of students by teachers. Even so, I feel there are still moral distinctions to be made in this discussion; and a teacher who had a relationship with a 17-year-old boy forty years ago -- perhaps a single transgression on her part -- is not the same as a serial abuser of younger boys like Gary Little. How much damage an action actually caused is not entirely irrelevant in judging how wrongful the action was. So I feel it matters in this case whether the person who notified Lakeside was the student who had the relationship or someone else. If it was the student himself, that would indeed indicate that he now feels that he was harmed and considers himself a victim. If it was someone else, we don't know how the student himself feels about what happened.

I should acknowledge that -- largely because of societal prejudices that I'm still subject to? -- it's easier for me to suppose that a 17-year-old male student would not later feel damaged by having had a relationship with a female teacher than if it had been a male teacher with either a male or a female student; I guess that's residual homophobia and sexism. (I'm a heterosexual woman.) No doubt my reaction has also been affected by the fact that the teacher in question was a very attractive woman and a terrific teacher who made a difference to me as a teenager. I hope very much that the relationship did not harm the student, but of course it may have.

Anyway, I mainly just wanted to point out that the Lakeside letter did not say that it was the student himself who had come forward 40 years later.

sleeping

Posted Sun, Aug 26, 3:48 p.m. Inappropriate

I view this as a commentary. I found it interesting not for the rather unpleasant student teacher interactions but for the comments about high school in the early 70's. I graduated from a public high school in 1972 and then attended a private institution of higer education which was still trying to adjust the admission of women a few years before. This trip down memory lane is important because it describes a slice of our society at the time. My experiences in high school and college were similar to what Mossback describes. For those who are much younger, remember that tidbits like this help with the understanding of history.

bartlet

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